Marital advice for men – whether you are looking to save your marriage from divorce, or just want a few tips on how to make your wife happier, here are some ways to improve your marriage.In many marriages, men are ‘king of the castle’. When the wife has a problem, her husband comes to her rescue. The husband’s role is to go to work every day to earn enough money to support his wife and kids. Providing food, shelter, and clothing for his family.After a hard day’s work, your day is over. You are free to go home and watch TV, or go to the bar for a few hours and hang out with the guys. A quick call to your wife doesn’t even enter your mind, because you know she is busy making dinner, and tending to the children. This is how life should be.Make room for romance in your life with the love of your life. Break up your routine and be more spontaneous. Do something thoughtful for your wife everyday, or at least often.Or is it?Has your marriage always been this way? Or was it different in the beginning?Your wife nags and complains about things, but isn’t that what wives do? You help around the house, but are you there for her emotionally?Have you thought about talking to your wife, just to see if she’s still happy? Strong, lasting marriages are built, among other things, upon communication. Talk to your wife, and see life through her eyes. She should see things from your perspective, also. This helps many couples realize that maybe there is a little change that can be made, to make both husband and wife happy.Make a commitment to yourself that you will make your marriage better. Show your wife how much you really do love her.Remembering your anniversary and your wife’s birthday are two very important ways to show her you love her. They may seem small things to you, but they are very important to her.Write a note telling her that you love her, and tuck it in her car or purse, so she will find it later. The element of surprise goes a LONG way, when your marriage just isn’t up to par.When your wife does dishes, go and help her. This is a great time to talk about your day, and to build the lines of communication between the two of you.You chose your wife as the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. Show her that you appreciate her, and that you love her. The gestures will be appreciated, and returned. The more you do this, the stronger your marriage will become.
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